Will people remember me when I die? After the wind has long since scattered my body throughout old stomping grounds and places etched with distant memories, will people remember me? How do you determine who will be in sung in songs, immortalized in text books, or cherished in hearts and minds for years after passing? Is it based on how one lives a life, or ends it? By looking into humanity’s soul through universally shared literature, cultural trends, historical events, as well as current ones, we begin to explore which deaths are mourned throughout the ages and which become swept aside into time’s hands. Understanding why society has held the memories of certain people, and not others, answers the questions how do we measure the significance of a death and does one death hold more value then another?
Looking to literature, both major and minor characters have brought readers to tears as they pass. One Hundred Years of Solitude, by Gabriel Garcia Marquez, creates emotional ends for his characters. These ends possess the power to weaken or fortify his fictional town of Macondo. The men and women who embrace death like an awaited friend, such as Amaranta, Col. Aureliano Buendia, and Remedios the Beauty, draw Macondo into awe and nostalgia. Characters who die abrasively and without warning – the Jose Arcardios – are emblazoned in memory but not necessarily for the lives they lead, but for the necessity to end their existence. Those who accept death, in the eyes of Marquez, can inspire others to relinquish fear while those who attract death solicit infamy.
The line separating death’s value is not clear when reexamined. Col. Aureliano Buendia was lucky to escape death for so long. Had he died in any of his thirty-two civil war campaigns, he’d be remembered as a hero forever. However, his death as a tired veteran removed the significance from his memory. Without a brilliant end, his memory no longer sticks in Macondo’s mind. In life, Amaranta was bitter and vicious towards all who tried to befriend her, but her acceptance of death and promise to meet it with letters from the town to deceased loved one’s renamed her a heroine. Arcadio, was an innocent nobody except for his small dictatorial regime over the town which lead to his execution. Marquez blurs the line between a person’s value as a human and value as a tombstone. The power of dying is so potent it can change the memory of an entire existence. Death seems to be the driving force of memory. This means that in order to live forever, we must figure out how to die immortally.
Marquez doesn’t answer the question of how to measure death; he simply proves that death is an important part of our impact on society. The real answer to comparing one death’s value to another lies deeper in human culture and civilization.
Look at the effects of Pearl Harbor and 9/11. Both tragedies are remembered for the many Americans who perished. But, how many individual names are remembered every year? Would those deaths have mattered were they not clustered together? Maybe it’s the volume of deaths that create significance rather than the person.
Lincoln and Kennedy’s assassination is still remembered while few people know that we’ve had two more presidents assassinated, as well. Is it the fact that Kennedy’s was viewed on national TV to a great audience or Lincoln’s was right after one of two wars on the home front? Who’s to say that without their future policies would’ve held more value then McKinley’s or Garfield’s? Maybe the number of witnesses makes death more significant.
My grandpa was sheriff of Arapahoe County and died a decade before I was born. Even though his funeral procession measured two miles in length, few people, including myself, know much about him. What’s kept his death from having the memory span of a kidnapped child, or a movie star?
Looking at classic movies and novels, reviewing popular and controversial eras, and studying humanity as a whole, I hope to answer how we can learn what will make our lives brought up in conversation for ages and our deaths kept in mind year after year.